Friday, April 30, 2010

OVERSTOCK.COM~FRUGAL MOMPRENEUR TIPS


I had recently found some adorable boutique outfits for Camille on a website, but they were way too expensive for this frugal mom to buy. So I scanned EBay & found the same outfits for less if I was willing spend several weeks watching for a good bid price. You can imagine my delight when I discovered these same outfits on Overstock.com at a  better price. Check out the great pricing for Children's Clothing

 were you will not only find these adorable outfits, but tons more & I love that shipping is always $2.95 no matter how much you buy!!

So then I go browsing through the Kid's Furniture & look what I found for all you expectant Mommy's. This adorable round bassinet comes with all the bedding that you see and the total cost is $131.99 & only $2.95 to ship. These round bassinets & cribs are all the rage for new Mom's.

This bassinet comes with:
White waffle bedding set includes a lovely three-tier skirt, soft bumper, fitted sheet and drape canopy
Waffle bedding features pink waffle pleats and trim
Storage shelf beneath the bassinet creates a storage area for toys, feeding and changing necessities
Bassinet also includes caster wheels
Graceful canopy shades the interior to keep out harsh light while baby is snoozing
Canopy is height adjustable
Bumper attaches with grip tape and ribbon ties
Includes a custom fitted, vinyl covered foam mattress pad
Then I found the Television department & could not believe the prices on there large flat screen televisions that they will ship for $2.95! I don't know how they can do that with there low pricing. They have a large variety of cameras, GPS systems, laptop computers and more.

This Westinghouse flat screen television is only $359.00 & $2.95 to ship!
The Westinghouse 32-inch LCD HDTV offers bright, rich color and smooth response for your HDTV-viewing, gaming, and PC pleasure

Television scans with 3D noise reduction, 3:2 Pulldown and 8ms response time, so you get clean images, even when the action gets fast
A built-in HDTV tuner allows you to pull in and decode broadcast HDTV signal without using a set-top box
The 176-degree viewing angle means you'll have the best possible sound and video from any seat in the room
With 1366x768 resolution, 1200:1 contrast and a multitude adjustment options, you'll be able to find the perfect setup for your room, lighting and application
Westinghouse SpineDesign technology places all the connectors you'll need on a convenient strip behind the
screen.
The Samsung Flat Screen Televisions  are also a great value on Overstock. I was surprised to see so many choices in the screen sizes for such low prices.

SUPER BIG FABRIC GIVEAWAY 2~FRUGAL MOMPRENEUR

Thank you all for your great participation in the Super Big Fabric Giveaway 1. I have so much girl fabric, I have to do it again!

I am Spring cleaning & that includes my vast fabric collection. When you have been sewing as long as I have, along with running a business that uses fabrics, the storage area is pretty full.

This is all girls fabrics, but stay tuned to the next fabric giveaway which will be for boy fabrics!


I am giving away 7 different fabrics, mostly the ever popular pinks. Over 10 yards total fabric. Some are 1/2 yard pieces, 1 yard and some more than 1 yard.


You will find some Amy Butler fabric, Minky polka dots, Pink brocade, Tayna Whelan, pink swirl minky, Paper dolls fabric, Pink Paisley & a Mary Rose shabby roses fabric. Everything you need for a your special projects.


~Rules To Win~

1. Become a follower of my blog. Come back and leave me a comment letting me know you follow. This will be verified.~

2. Go to my website, www.smallsprouts.com, look at our designs, then come back & tell me what you would make if you won the fabric!!

Extra Entries:
2. Become an email subscriber. This is found on the upper right hand side of blog. leave me a comment letting me know you did so. this will be verified.

3. Follow me on Twitter and tweet about this giveaway. Please leave a comment with your twitter name letting me know you did so.

4. Become a fan on my Facebook, go to the upper right side of my blog to click on the fan box. Please leave a comment letting me know you did so.

This giveaway ends May 15, 2010 at 6am & is open to the U.S. only. Make sure that you leave your email address in each comment. Leave a separate comment for every entry that you make so that these will count for you! Have fun and I look forward to announcing the winner of this great giveaway!

WINNER OF THE BIG FABRIC GIVEAWAY 1~FRUGAL MOMPRENEUR

~WOW! Thank you all for the great participation~

~The winner of our Big Fabric Giveaway is "Chris & Annalisa"~

~Stay tuned for the Big Fabric Giveaway 2~

Thursday, April 29, 2010

WELCOME TO MORGAN'S WONDERLAND~AUTISM AWARENESS MONTH


I would like to end my Autism Awareness Month posts with a big THANK YOU! to The Gordon Hartman Foundation for building and operating Morgan's Wonderland here in San Antonio. Morgan is the Hartman's Autistic daughter, hence the name of the park.

Morgan’s Wonderland is located in San Antonio, Texas. It is the World’s First Ultra Accessible Family Fun Park designed specifically for children and adults with special needs, their family members, caregivers, friends and the entire community. This 25-acre park is a unique oasis, that through the spirit of inclusion, allows people of all abilities to play, learn and share life changing experiences together, in a fun and safe environment.

Wonderland Express & Depot

All aboard! Gather at our 1930s-style train depot to climb aboard the Wonderland Express train. Our beautiful locomotive, truly a train-lover’s delight, pulls multiple cars with specially designed wheelchair-accessible ramps so the whole family can enjoy a fun and relaxing ride together. The train runs all the way around our scenic eight-acre lake, a distance of almost a mile. Along the way, riders go “around the world” and pass rest areas reminiscent of Africa, Germany, Japan, Mexico and Italy.


The Wharf

“Drop anchor” at our rustic Fishing Wharf, and enjoy the view of the lake and its fountain that shoots water 61 feet into the air. Feed the fish or drop in a line and catch a big one! For even more fun, shoot water cannons off the Wharf at brightly colored spinning targets out in the lake, or take the wheel and pilot a remote-controlled boat around a mini-lagoon


I counted 25 different attractions. This park is a blast for the whole family. Your special needs child gets in free and family members are $5.00 each. Joel has so much fun here & he loves to fish!! We will add this to our Summer routine which includes Seaworld as Morgan's Wonderland is just as fun!!

For more info, contact Morgan's Wonderland

Thank you all for your month long e-mail, comment and special thanks to my guest posters, Lacey & Elaine!

Wednesday, April 28, 2010

AUTISM TREATMENT OPTIONS~THE BRAIN!

There is more and more research that links many learning and developmental difficulties to poor communication and synchronisation between the two brain halves. An effective way of improving the processing functions in the brain is to listen to specially altered sound or music through headphones as pioneered by Dr. Alfred Tomatis (Tomatis method) and Dr. Guy Bérard (Auditory Integration Training - AIT).

Now there is a new Sound Therapy Programme which has been specifically developed with the aim to improve sensory processing, interhemispheric integration and cognitive functioning and it is entirely free to download and use at home. It has helped many children and adults with a wide range of learning and developmental difficulties, ranging from dyslexia, dyspraxia and attention deficit/hyperactivity disorder to sensory processing disorders and autism. It is not a cure or medical intervention, but a structured training programme that can help alleviate some of the debilitating effects that these conditions can have on speech and physical ability, daily behaviour, emotional well-being and educational or work performance.

Three weeks ago, I downloaded this program & have used it with my Joel. We do one hour sessions in the morning before he goes to school and he is usually asleep. Joel likes the music so much,  he has started asking to listen to the music while he is awake. We finished our 3 weeks and I don't see a difference, but the company says it may take up to 3 months to notice a difference. I e-mailed Steven at SAS Centre several times with questions & he was very helpful. My only comment to him was that the music needed to be more kid themed or instrumental & he did say they were working on that.

Check out the Free Sound Therapy Home Programme from Sensory Activation Solutions. There is no catch, it's absolutely free and most importantly often effective. Find it at: http://www.sascentre.com/EN_home.html
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Interactive Metronome
A good friend of mine who has experience as an occupational therapist recommended we check out Interactive Metronome for Joel. She is licensed to practice metronome with children & tells me of amazing transformations she has seen in children with special needs.

There is growing understanding that motor planning and sequencing is one of the most significant processing capacities that underlie a broad spectrum of children's learning impairments and endowments.

The object of Interactive Metronome Training is to help individuals improve their ability to selectively attend, without interruption by internal thoughts or external distractions, for extended periods of time. Simple limb motion exercises are used as systematic outward catalysts to an underlying mental focus improvement process.

Until recently, interventions to strengthen motor planning and sequencing capacities have been limited to working with overt or surface behaviors in educational or therapeutic settings. Interactive Metronome Training is the only educational intervention to systematically use guidance sounds and repetitive limb motion exercises to help users improve their underlying motor planning and sequencing ability.

The American Journal of Occupational Therapy will soon publish a study which investigated the effect of the Interactive Metronome® on children with ADHD. It found the IM to be the first attention training technology to achieve statistically significant improvements. Children with autism, Asperger's Syndrome, PDD, Cerebral Palsy and other Learning Disabilities can also benefit from Interactive Metronome Training.

Typically children have to be at least 6 years old and have the motor skills to do the program. We took our Joel in for a consultation and he was able to complete a 1/2 hour session, but he still had some motor skill issues we need to work on & will try the metronome again this Summer.

For more information on this, go to http://www.interactivemetronome.com/IMPublic/Home.aspx

Monday, April 26, 2010

AUTISM TREAMENT OPTIONS~GFCF & VITAMIN REGIMEN

Treatment Options – GFCF diet


After reading some of Jenny McCarthy’s books about her diagnosis and treatment plans with her son, and my Father doing extensive research on neurological disorders (my grandmother was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s simultaneously) we decided to meet with a Defeat Autism Now (DAN!) Doctor in our area to discuss potential holistic approaches to defeating autism.

Presley was cranky a lot (especially around the 17 month mark) and had terrible digestive problems. Her bowels were terrible, abnormally stinky and very loose like diarrhea- but all the time and sometimes even foamy. We already knew she needed to be on soy-based milk products since she was an infant but she was still having issues... we weren’t sure what it was.

For months she would only eat macaroni and cheese (mistake number one, allowing this), pre-packaged instant oatmeal, peanut butter and jelly sandwiches… typical toddler food but nothing extra like veggies or fruits anymore.

Once we went through the diagnosis and then decided to meet with our DAN! Doctor about this, everything changed. We conducted a comprehensive stool analysis on Presley to determine yeast levels in her body and to determine what all needed to change. Straight from the website listed below “The Comprehensive Stool Analysis detects the presence of pathogenic microorganisms such as yeast, parasites, and bacteria which contribute to chronic illness and neurological dysfunction. It provides helpful information about prescription and natural products effective against specific microorganism strains detected in the sample. The test also evaluates beneficial bacteria levels, intestinal immune function, overall intestinal health (presence of occult blood, short chain fatty acids analysis, pH, and mucus) and inflammation markers.”

We put her on the GFCF diet (Gluten Free, Casein Free) diet. Well, we’re still struggling with getting her on it 100% today but we’re moving toward that. GFCF diet has been known to help kids with autism dramatically in their behavior and digestive system. I can’t get into the clinical details of it all but basically the “you are what you eat” saying your mother always said is true. We saw immediate results when she started this- she started focusing more, using better eye-contact and honestly, just calming down a bit. Her BMs were solid again and she wasn’t cranky.

The GFCF diet has really become a staple for most families with kids and autism; used as a basis for further treatment options out there which Christine has discussed such as Chelation and detoxification methods, etc. After she began the diet, we put her on a vitamin and supplement regimen as well. This was mostly due to the fact that she wasn’t getting all the vitamins and minerals she needed before or after the start of the diet (being a picky eater and unable to absorb the nutrients from the food she was digesting). According to our DAN! Doctor, it is extremely important to be as healthy as possible prior to moving toward any type of toxic metal detoxification because during any detox, not only are you getting rid of the bad but some of the good as well. She plans to keep Presley on the vitamins only for at least another year or two before we consider it.

Extensive research and data can be found on the GFCF diet or anything mentioned in this blog can be found online at www.taca.com, www.gfcf.com and http://www.greatplainslaboratory.com/.

Thank you Lacey for all the great information!!

Saturday, April 24, 2010

DRIVING TRAFFIC TO YOUR WEBSITE, BLOG SITE, ETSY & EBAY STORE FOR FREE!


~THE FRUGAL MOMPRENEUR EBOOKS~
~Driving Traffic will become one of the most important parts of your business~You need customers to have sales~

~Lots of other EBooks will tell you to pay for Ad words, advertising, etc., & they do work, but they cost money~I am going to show you how I drove traffic to my Website, Blog site, Etsy & EBay Stores for Free! My Website is on the 1st page of Google~If you Google "custom infant car seat covers" you will see me there with several other sites that paid to get there~

~You will find tips for Websites, blog sites, Etsy Site, EBay sites, Facebook, Twitter, Flickr & more~

~Included in this EBook is a little known secret to driving massive traffic to your sites without spending money~This is not a gimmick! It is something that was shared with me by a computer techie friend in the industry~



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Friday, April 23, 2010

HOW TO CLEAN WITH VINEGAR~FRUGAL MOMPRENEUR TIP!


How to Clean With Vinegar

Cleaning with vinegar is an easy, inexpensive way to kill 99-percent of all germs without toxins or harmful chemicals. The key ingredient and the thing which makes white vinegar especially good for cleaning and disinfecting, is acetic acid. The acid gives vinegar its acidic taste, but more importantly, it's also the thing which the Heinz company says kills salmonella, shigella or E. coli bacteria.

Distilled white vinegar does more than disinfect. Mixed with baking soda, Cream of Tartar or salt, it also becomes a polish and metal cleaner. If you or someone in your family has allergies, you should be buying vinegar by the gallons, because it neutralizes allergens created by dust mites.

Supplies Needed To Clean With Vinegar:
■Spray bottle
■Distilled white vinegar
■Soft cloth or clean rags
■Sponge
■Plastic or glass bowl

Step 1: Prepare the Vinegar
Pour your undiluted white distilled vinegar into a spray bottle, a glass or plastic bowl or directly onto a sponge or soft cloth.

Step 2: Apply the Vinegar
Use the spray bottle to spray faucets, sinks, counters, cutting boards or any surface you want to disinfect with vinegar. Allow to sit for a few minutes, then wipe with a clean rag, sponge or paper towel. If using a sponge, dip it into a bowl of undiluted vinegar, or pour vinegar directly onto a cloth or sponge and wipe the area you want to clean or disinfect. Allow it to sit.

Step 3: Rinse And Dry
After wiping up vinegar with a sponge or cloth, follow up with a cold water rinse to eliminate streaking, then dry with another dry cloth.

Tips for Using Vinegar to Clean
■Use the 5-percent white vinegar available in your local grocery or convenience store for cleaning.

■Rinse vegetables from your garden or the grocery with white vinegar to kill salmonella, shigella or E. coli bacteria on leaves and vegetables.

■Vinegar neutralizes dust mite allergens. Use white vinegar to wipe down walls and surfaces, to mop floors and wash clothing.

■Don't dilute vinegar if you want full-strength cleaning.

■Vinegar will clean mold, mildew and soap grime in bathrooms. Spray on, let it soak and rinse it off.

■Vinegar will also clean shower heads. Soak your shower head in a bowl of vinegar for several hours, then rinse. If you can't get the shower head off, then fill a strong, leak-proof bag with vinegar and secure it to the shower-head (dip the shower-head in the bag) and tie up with strong twine.

■Mix vinegar with 1/4 cup baking soda and a tablespoon of dish washing detergent to create a scouring or scrubbing cleaner.

■Clean your microwave. Mix 1/2 cup of white distilled vinegar and 1/2 cup of water into a microwave-safe bowl. Bring to a boil for 20 to 30 seconds and then allow to stand for another minute. Remove bowl and wipe out microwave. Great for getting rid of fish odors.

■Clean metals, such as brass, copper, and pewter, by mixing Cream of Tartar in equal amounts with salt. Add enough white distilled vinegar to make a creamy paste. Rub on metal and let dry. Rub off, rinse and dry.

Read more: http://www.doityourself.com/stry/how-to-clean-with-vinegar

Thursday, April 22, 2010

AUTISM TREATMENTS~AUTISM AWARENESS MONTH

Once again I want to say thank you for all your e-mails, comments and guest posts. Obviously there is a lot of interest in the subject of Autism. If you have not read any of our Autism Awareness posts from this month, I highly recommend you go back through our blog so you don't miss out on all the information.

As promised, we are going to talk about treatment options for Autism. When Joel was first diagnosed, two treatment options where brought to our attention right away by a holistic doctor we knew. The first has to do with diet & the second is metal toxicity.

Our doctor suggested a 90 day gluten free/casein free/sugar free diet as some autism cases have shown improvement with diet change.  The 90 days was a time element to determine if that was an issue for Joel & if it was, we would make that a lifestyle for him.

Gluten and gluten-like proteins are found in wheat and other grains, including oats, rye, barley, bulgar, durum, kamut and spelt, and foods made from those grains. They are also found in food starches, semolina, couscous, malt, some vinegars, soy sauce, flavorings, artificial colors and hydrolyzed vegetable proteins.

Casein is a protein found in milk and foods containing milk, such as cheese, butter, yogurt, ice cream, whey and even some brands of margarine. It also may be added to non-milk products such as soy cheese and hot dogs in the form of caseinate.

There is growing interest in the link between autism and gastrointestinal (GI) ailments. A study by the University of California Davis Health System found that children with autism born in the 1990s were more likely to have gastrointestinal problems, including constipation, diarrhea and vomiting, than autistic children who were born in the early 1980s. Some people use the GFCF diet mainly to ease gastrointestinal problems and food allergies or sensitivities.

According to one theory, some people with autism and PDD cannot properly digest gluten and casein, which form peptides, or substances that act like opiates in their bodies. The peptides then alter the person's behavior, perceptions, and responses to his environment. Some scientists now believe that peptides trigger an unusual immune system response in certain people. Research in the U.S. and Europe has found peptides in the urine of a significant number of children with autism. A doctor can order a urinary peptide test to see if proteins are being digested properly. To see the full article, click http://www.autismweb.com/diet.htm

After the 90 days, we did not see a significant change in Joel, so we ended the diet & went to our next step.

Metal Toxicity
Working with our holistic doctor, we gave Joel a urine analysis for heavy metals which turned up high quantities of Mercury & a bit of lead. How could that happen? After looking in my mouth, the doctor explained to me that the several old mercury filling in my mouth leach mercury into my blood system. When you are pregnant, that mercury goes to your baby & if your child is genetically predisposed to autism, they do not excrete the mercury quickly, leaving them toxic. Some childhood immunizations contain toxins & metals also. Fish can contain levels of mercury.

We began a 1&1/2 years metal detox program for Joel called Chelation. The first 90 days of the detox is with DMSA only. Then you add in the Lipoic acid with the DMSA. The best way for me to describe this to you is the the DMSA alone will rid your child's body tissue of the mercury as it will come out in there blood and urine, but to leach it out of the brain, you must add the lipoic acid to cross the blood brain barrier which DMSA cannot do by itself. We also used some liver and bladder supplements to help flush out the toxins.

DMSA is an excellent chelator of most heavy metals including mercury. When used appropriately, it is safe and effective. DMSA has survived the testing necessary for FDA approval for use in children. This means it has been tested in children and was found to be both safe and effective. Despite the FDA’s poor record in testing and approving vaccines, the procedures for testing and approval of drugs are quite rigorous.

The only approved use for DMSA is for the treatment of lead poisoning in children. Fortunately, DMSA is not very selective about which heavy metal it chelates, and binds to mercury quite readily. Despite claims of DMSA’s ability to cross the blood-brain barrier (BBB), it is doubtful that it really does so. The study cited most often as proving DMSA’s ability to cross the BBB was done in rats. Rats are known to not have a good BBB. DMSA is water-soluble and not very lipid-soluble. This characteristic alone raises some doubts about its true ability to cross the BBB.

Lipoic acid fits the molecular criteria of a good chelator. It has two diametrically opposed sulfhydryl groups capable of tightly binding mercury in a "pincer grasp". It also has the advantage of being lipid-soluble which implies an innate ability to cross cell and mitochondrial membranes and the BBB more easily than DMSA. To read more about this, click http://www.healing-arts.org/children/holmes.htm#treatment

Chelation is a difficult schedule, but you must be committed for the healing to take place. You are basically on a 14 day cycle, giving DMSA to your child every 4 hours, 9 days on and 5 days off. What that means is for 9 straight days, you will run in 4 hour cycles and yes that means you have to wake them in the middle of the night to give doses. Then you take 5 days off. We were told to go 1 &1/2 years to do clean him out.

We then had a hair analysis taken for Joel which determined he was metal free!!! That is when you realize how much all that you went through is worth it.

BREAKTHROUGH
So did it work? I have to say, during the process of chelation, we did and do see improvement in Joel. Many of his autism symptoms started to disappear. Mostly, the tactile issues! I no longer had to cut tags out of his clothing, he could get wet and not want to change clothes, no more walking on tippy toes. We noticed his outburst were lessened & his language started to improve. Loud noises did not seem to bother him as much.

In my next post, I will talk about some recent treatments we have done with Joel having to do with brain allignment. I will also have another guest post about Vitamin treatments.

I do want to add in here that one of Joel's biggest breakthroughs has been his language. Joel spoke one word and broken sentences for a long time, but this year being in Kindergarten with the regular kids & PPCD support has made a huge difference. We are so grateful to have loving teachers for Joel that really care about his progress. Just being around other regular speaking kids has really spurred him on in language.

Do you have an autism story to share, please contact me at Frugalmompreneur@sbcglobal.net

Wednesday, April 21, 2010

WHERE HAVE THE NICETIES GONE?


I am a Jane Austen fan— I admit it unabashedly. I yearn for the niceties—for the formalities, if you will—that make life so much more pleasant. I delight in listening to the conversation when a love-tormented Mr. Darcy accidentally stumbles upon Elizabeth Bennett out walking.

“Is your mother well?” he asks.

"Quite well”, Elizabeth replies.

“And your father?” Mr Darcy continues.

“Yes, very well indeed”, Elizabeth returns.

Mr. Darcy longs to shout out the deep yearning feelings of his heart and his struggle with her rejection of him, but instead, he is a restrained gentlemen. He goes through the paces of pleasant exchange. Somehow our texting, twittering, facebooking has reduced us to one line replies that show little concern or appreciation.

I find it sad to hear that people break up now over twitter. I am not against technology, except when it replaces human contact, human emotions & human interaction. We mostly learn to grow in character during face to face interaction.

I just looked up “niceties” in the dictionary and it said, delicacy of character. Oh yes! That is what I feel is lacking!

Reprinted in part from http://www.homeschooling.net/blog/

Tuesday, April 20, 2010

YOU ARE WHAT YOU EAT~PLEASE WATCH THIS VIDEO~FOOD MATTERS



Food Matters aims to further jolt the trillion dollar worldwide so-called ‘sickness industry’ by declaring a range of scientifically verifiable solutions for curing disease naturally. Nutritionists turned filmmakers James Colquhoun and Laurentine ten Bosch, have produced a bold film based on a challenging and potentially startling message; that with the right kind of foods, supplements and detoxification processes, we can prevent, arrest, and even reverse chronic illness.

“This film will shatter the belief fed to us by modern medicine that there is ‘a pill for every ill’,” said Colquhoun. “We’re not suggesting that pharmaceutical drugs don’t have their place, we’re saying that our overburdened health care practitioners perhaps do not have the time to educate people about alternative treatments and healthy living.”

“There are simple lifestyle changes that we as individuals can make to start reversing the increasing levels of serious illness,” said ten Bosch. At a time when our struggling health system is under review and global health care reform is urgent, Food Matters brings together the world’s leaders in nutrition and natural healing to present astonishing new claims about ways to treat depression, obesity, alcoholism, heart disease, cancer, dementia, and a host of other debilitating conditions, without the need for drugs or surgery.

Can high doses of Vitamin C really cure cancer? Can two handfuls of cashews provide the therapeutic equivalent of a prescription dose of Prozac? According to one of the film’s contributors, author and therapeutic nutrition specialist with over 30 years experience in natural healing, Andrew W. Saul, these claims are entirely viable.

Saul says that our health care systems are in fact disease care systems, and that there is no money to be made in reducing levels of sickness and disease. He states: “Good health makes a lot of sense, but it doesn’t make a lot of dollars.”

Another of the film’s expert commentators, Charlotte Gerson, founder of the Gerson Institute which is dedicated to healing and preventing chronic diseases using natural therapies and has helped improve the lives of countless cancer patients using the Gerson Therapy, claims that a normal, healthy body has such powerful defences that it cannot and will not develop cancer or any other chronic disease.

Colquhoun and ten Bosch hope Food Matters will educate people about ways to prevent sickness, rather than encourage them to rely on a system already in crisis to treat symptoms once sickness takes hold.

You can find the Food Matters DVD for a better price on EBay.

Monday, April 19, 2010

EARLY INTERVENTION IS THE KEY~AUTISM AWARNESS MONTH

When Christine e-mailed me to write a guest post for her blog, I was humbled. I am a speech language pathologist in the public school system. I have only been out of graduate school since 2005, and before entering into the public schools I worked in a nursing home and at a rehabilitation hospital. I just don’t consider myself an expert in this area.

I guess my interest in autism first started while working at the rehab hospital. It was there that I have my first memories of working with autistic children. One boy was 16 years old at the time, if I can recall correctly he had some good language skills, enough that he could answer questions and communicate his basic wants and needs. He wasn’t one of my patients though and I only worked with him a few times. I do remember observing his hand flapping and rocking back and forth, which are both red flags of autism. He constantly rocked and flapped his hands; I never saw him sitting still.

Another child at the rehabilitation hospital was adorable. He had a loving single mother, who always brought him to therapy and sat in the therapy room with his younger sister trying to observe what the therapist was doing, so she could carry over the same skills at home. I love parents like this, those that are truly involved and want to help so bad. His therapist was teaching him sign language because he would not talk. I observed so many of their sessions and was amazed as he slowly began to learn some sign language. Again, I observed many of the red flags and this child needed many sensory breaks during the session. Pushing these little colored bears into the play-doh, and smashing down the bumps that it created was his most favorite activity. You wouldn’t think that this would create a lot of language skills, but it can. Words such as “big, little, soft, cold, smooth, roll, flatten, bear, more, please, up, down, my turn” and more can all be taught with just a little bear and some play-doh!

I left the rehabilitation hospital, because my husband had a job change. I knew that we’d be starting a family, so I decided to work for the public school system so I could have summers and holidays off with our little one, once he/she arrived. 10 months after starting my job there, we welcomed a little girl.

Of course, I was worried about autism, and did some research on vaccinations, but we immunized her on schedule. Except when she was sick around 15 months of age and we didn’t know what was wrong, just that she was having gastrointestinal issues. Finally, around 20 months, she was fine and we had solved the problem, so we vaccinated her. At 2 years of age, she is right on track developmentally, and I feel very blessed.

Through the last three years in the public school, I’ve had a chance to work with many children with autism, be it preschoolers, school-agers, or those in high school. I have learned one thing; no two children with autism are exactly the same. You can’t give them the same treatment, they all have different needs and skills. They all make progress in their own time, and they all teach you something.

I guess I should get on to the one student I really wanted to write about. He’s a 4 year old preschool student, who just started attending one of the public preschools that I provide therapy for. As far as I know he wasn’t receiving public early intervention. Usually when a child receives early intervention from birth to three, they are evaluated by the public schools and placed into appropriate services by their third birthday. But, this child wasn’t evaluated until he was 4. He didn’t meet the requirements for head start, so he came to this other preschool.

I received his information packet and his IEP (individualized education plan). First look at his goals, and I assumed he was a pretty high functioning kid. His eligibility was language disorder. I walked into the preschool his first day, and asked where he was, when I saw him, red flags immediately started to pop up into my head. He was running around the room, echolalic (repeats what you say), and very into his own world, he didn’t follow the routine of the other kids when they went to circle time, instead he was fascinated by spinning an object around. In my mind, he was autistic.

As soon as I got back to my office, I dug through his file further. I saw that he had received private therapy services, and that there were concerns of possible autism, so I sent home permission for us to do further evaluating.

Evaluations in the public school may consist of: a social/health/developmental history form, an observation by a special education teacher, testing by the school psychologist, etc. Once evaluations are completed a case conference committee meeting is held to discuss the findings of the evaluations and make recommendations.

We found this student eligible for services under the eligibility of ASD (autism spectrum disorder) as well as language impairment. It is important to note that a school does not give the diagnosis of Autism, only a doctor can do so.

We recommended for the student to continue attending the public preschool setting, speech therapy services 1x a week, as well as occupational therapy on a consultation basis.

On my end, progress appeared to be slow. He required cueing to follow the classroom routine, and a picture schedule was recommended. We worked on action words and nouns, allowing him to perform each action word. We used a chair to get him to sit beside me at circle time. He continued to love helicopters and spinning of objects. Slowly over time, he’d look at me more and more. He began to bring objects over to me, naming them, and showing me how interested he was in them- which is a red flag of autism, but it also showed some joint attention, that he wanted me to care about the same things.

After Christmas, his class was divided and moved to another classroom. He was able to stay with the majority of his class and his old classroom teacher. We had two weeks off at Christmas, but the day I went back, I saw a different kid. I mean, he was starting to follow the class routine; he was sitting on the carpet during circle time! Of course, he was still flying his helicopters and spinning them around. But, he was also very interested in dinosaurs, which I hadn’t seen before.

Over time, he began to actually sing some of the songs they were singing at circle time. Although, he quietly sang them, still he was muttering the words. He began to perform the motions of the song. He would help clean up and was following class routine.

Spring Break finally rolled around, and this child was making great progress! He started to be more affectionate- giving hugs and soft kisses on my cheek, he was making more eye contact, and beginning to imitate the actions of other kids.

That’s what I’m most proud of. We have been working for several months on having him to acknowledge the presence of others. He won’t wave “hi” to me, he won’t even say “hi”, nor will he wave “bye” or say “see you later!” But, the last time I saw him, the girls in his class were all over him, and I had them wave to me and tell me “hi”, and you know what? He waved to me too! He waved because he saw the other kids doing so. He imitated that very appropriate action and I was so pleased! Afterward, his teacher was getting volunteers, and guess what? He raised his hand!!!! He wanted to be a part of it! She overlooked him, and I was bitter. Why not reward that behavior! But, then she pulled out other pieces to help with, and he got to be the “sun” in their song. He held the sun to his face, and did exactly what any other child would do- he smiled and sort of danced around. He was so happy to be the sun! That was one of my proudest days working with him, because I could see the small steps of progress he had made!

I left the building that day, bragging to the director how well he did. He was outside on the playground, standing by the fence with 3 other students. I walked to my car, backed out, and guess what- the girls were waving bye to me. The little boy looked at them, watched them, and started to wave too! That action made my day a million times better than it already was!

I won’t have this student next year. He’s going to kindergarten. He’s going to an autism classroom, where they work on the STAR program. I am confident that his language skills will increase next year, and I’m hoping that he’ll be placed in a mild disabilities classroom. I’m really hoping he’ll be placed in the classroom at my school, so I can have him back!

I think early intervention is key to increasing skills in children with autism. I also think that being around typically developing children is important. And, as a parent, you should give your child the most opportunities as possible. I applaud all of you that have children with autism. I applaud your strength and your courage and the fight that you take on for your child, and I honestly thank you for that.

I want to thank Elaine for her guest post!! Please stay tuned to our next post where we will talk about different treatment options!!

Saturday, April 17, 2010

SUMMER IS ALMOST HERE! BEST SHAVING TIPS~FRUGAL MOMPRENEUR

Today, women are increasingly turning to waxing and some are trying laser hair removal  however, shaving remains the least expensive form of hair removal. Here are 10 shaving tips and tricks to ensure you're doing it the right way and cutting down on the nicks and irritation so common to shaved skin.

1. The trick to shaving is to wet your skin and let it soften from the heat and moisture. You don't want to shave dry skin. Shaving is a natural exfoliator and you'll clog up the razor with dead skin while putting yourself at risk for nicks.

2. There's no need to waste your money on shaving creams formulated especially for women. They are virtually the same as the creams sold for men. (Now if you can just find a scent you can live with). My hands down favorite shaving cream works for both him and her. Kiehl's Close Shavers moisturizes like nothing else I've found. Buy it online.

3. You are going to have to experiment with razors until you find the perfect one for you. Ask your friends for recommendations and look for a razor with lubricated strips, pivoting heads and spring-mouonted multiple blades. I've sampled several types and varieties and was amazed at how different each feels. My favorite? The Gillette Venus razor. Another great and new bet: Schick Quattro for Women, which has four super-thin blades and a pivoting head.

4. Be sure to change razors or cartridges on a regular basis, a dull blade can lead to nicks. Also, it's best not to borrow your guy's razor. His hair is coarser and will dull a blade. (Plus, don't men typically hate it when women borrow razors?)

5. Be sure to exfoliate your skin before shaving. It gets rid of all the dead skin cells that could clog up your razor, preventing a close shave.

6. Since your leg hairs grow down, you'll want to start at your ankles and shave up. For your underarms, you'll need to shave in every direction since the hair there grows every which way.

7. When finished, apply oil or moisturizer. The skin on your legs has few oil glands and has a tendency for dryness.

8. Ingrown hairs are caused when the hairs curl back under the skin. Avoid ingrown hair by exfoliating daily and using a glycolic acid body lotion.

9. If you have a chronic case of ingrown hairs, try Tend Skin, an over-the-counter lotion for ingrown hairs, applying it in the morning and at night. The bumps should disappear within a couple days.

10. Consider opting for waxing, at least on your legs. You'll find that if you have coarser hair, it won't grow back as fast.

Article reprinted from beauty.about.com

Friday, April 16, 2010

TOXIC SEAFOOD~FRUGAL MOMPRENEUR TIP!

The American seafood industry is being flooded with products imported from developing countries, much of which have proven to be contaminated with banned chemicals, poisons, carcinogens and high levels of antibiotics, according to a report by ABC News.

The report found that over 80 percent of the seafood sold in America today is imported, much of it from Third World nations such as China, Vietnam and the Philippines, none of which are known for their food safety standards.

The Food and Drug Administration, which is charged with promoting public health through regulation and supervision of food safety, inspects less than one percent of the nation’s imported seafood. Alabama, one of the few states with stringent seafood safety testing, regularly rejects 50 to 60 percent of imported seafood due to safety concerns, ABC News reported.

But, the FDA’s lack of regulation of food imports is no surprise given how understaffed and underfunded the agency is. In 2007, the Food and Drug Administration, which oversees 80 percent of the nation’s food supply, estimated that it would conduct border inspections of just 0.6 percent of the food it is supposed to regulate. The U.S. Department of Agriculture, another agency charged with supervising food safety, conducted inspections on roughly 11 percent of imported foods in 2007.

It is no wonder then that the U.S. Center for Disease Control and Prevention estimates that every year 76 million Americans are afflicted by food poisoning. Of those, an estimated 5,000 will die each year. The Trust for America’s Health found that foodborne illnesses caused by major pathogens cost $44 billion annually in medical care and lost productivity.

The seafood case is just one of many episodes in the ongoing saga of America being invaded with toxic, faulty or dangerous foreign imports.

Personally, our family stopped eating all seafood many years ago due to the toxic levels in all seafood. Do your research. Even farmed fish have toxic levels due to antibiotics used due to the crowded ponds used for farming.

Article reprinted from economyincrisis.org

Thursday, April 15, 2010

SUPER BIG FABRIC GIVEAWAY~FRUGAL MOMPRENEUR

I am Spring cleaning & that includes my vast fabric collection. When you have been sewing as long as I have, along with running a business that uses fabrics, the storage area is pretty full.

This is all girls fabrics, but stay tuned to the next fabric giveaway which will be for boy fabrics!
I am giving away 9 different fabrics, mostly the ever popular pinks, browns and greens. Over 15 yards total fabric. Some are 1/2 yard pieces, 1 yard and some more than 1 yard.

You will find some Amy Butler fabric, Minky Dynasty, Minky hearts, Pink suede sherpa backed fabric, Toiles, stripe, pink paisley fabric & a Mary Rose shabby roses fabric. Everything you need for a your special projects.


~Rules To Win~

1. Become a follower of my blog. Come back and leave me a comment letting me know you follow. This will be verified.~

2. Go to my website, www.smallsprouts.com, look at our designs, then come back & leave a comment letting me know which fabric is your favorite!!

Extra Entries:
2. Become an email subscriber. This is found on the upper right hand side of blog. leave me a comment letting me know you did so. this will be verified.

3. Follow me on Twitter and tweet about this giveaway. Please leave a comment with your twitter name letting me know you did so.

4. Become a fan on my Facebook, go to the upper right side of my blog to click on the fan box. Please leave a comment letting me know you did so.

This giveaway ends April 30, 2010 at 6am & is open to the U.S. only. Make sure that you leave your email address in each comment. Leave a separate comment for every entry that you make so that these will count for you! Have fun and I look forward to announcing the winner of this great giveaway!

WINNER OF THE RETRO VINTAGE INSPIRED TEE GIVEAWAY

~THE WINNER OF THE RETRO VINTAGE INSPIRED TEE GIVEAWAS IS TJ AND AMY!!~

THANK YOU ALL FOR THE GREAT PARTICIPATION AND GET READY FOR THE NEXT GIVEAWAY~!

Tuesday, April 13, 2010

COPING WITH AUTISM AS A FAMILY~AUTISM AWARENESS MONTH

If you have a child with Autism, you certainly know what it is like to be isolated, misunderstood, shunned & rejected. The very things you are trying to prevent from happening to your autistic child, will happen to your whole family. That is, if you are a family like ours that loves to do things together, many times you are excluded from social activities with other families due to your autistic childs behaviors. Or it can be a general lack of knowledge about autism leading to the fear of the unknown.

Our Joel is mildly autistic. You only know something is different about Joel if you listen to him talk or see one of his meltdowns. He is actually very well behaved, especially around others & at other peoples homes. Yet when big brother gets an invitation, little brother is usually excluded. My heart goes out to families with more severe symptoms on the autism spectrum, I have no idea what you must go through!

We have not belonged to an Institutional Church in over three years, right after Joel was diagnosed. Not that we did not try, we visited 10 churches over the last 3 years. Churches do not seem to want to provide services for special needs children. It has been suggested we come to Church seperately, leaving one parent at home to tend to Joel. If  I cannot worship with my whole family, I will worship with them at home. Makes me wonder "What would Jesus do?"

Even though Joel is very athletically inclined, Joel is not allowed to join a traditional soccer club, basketball or football. They say that they are not equipped for special needs children.

So how do we cope? We make a special outing with Joel when big brother is invited somewere else. We try to educate people about autism to ease their fears. We gladly home church & worship with our whole family! & we connect with other families of special needs children. There are also many support organizations for families of special needs children. Contact your local school district.

Stay tuned for more Autism Awareness Month posts!!

~SMALL SPROUTS REAL TREE PINK INFANT COVER~

~You may have seen in a previous post about my Mossy Oak Camo niche products that I sell quite a few of. Hence we were so excited to find this new fabric for all our hunting families~

~This is an adorable pink Real Tree fabric paired with our chocolate minky dot. We can make matching blankets, diaper bags, stroller covers, toddler and booster covers~

~Checkout our website, http://www.smallsprouts.com/ for order information~

Monday, April 12, 2010

BETTER PROTECTION THAN PEPPER SPRAY~FRUGAL MOMPRENEUR TIP!


Protection for you and your home:

If you don't have a gun, here's a more humane way to stop someone from attacking or robbing you. (I guess I can get rid of the baseball bat.):

WASP SPRAY
A friend who is a receptionist in a church in a high risk area was concerned about someone coming into the office on Monday to rob them when they were counting the collection. She asked the local police department
about using pepper spray and they recommended to her that she get a can of wasp spray instead.

The wasp spray, they told her, can shoot up to twenty feet away and is alot more accurate, while with the pepper spray, they have to get too close to you and could overpower you. The wasp spray temporarily blinds a attacker until they get to the hospital for an antidote. She keeps a can on her desk in the office and it doesn't attract attention from people like a can of pepper spray would. She also keeps one nearby at home for home protection.. Thought this was interesting and might be of use.

FROM ANOTHER SOURCE

On the heels of a break in and beating that left an elderly woman in Toledo dead, self defense experts have a tip that could save your life. Val Glinka teaches self-defense to students at Sylvania Southview High School . For decades, he's suggested putting a can of wasp and hornet spray near your door or bed. Glinka says, "This is better than anything I can teach them." Glinka considers it inexpensive, easy to find, and more effective than mace or pepper spray. The cans typically shoot 20 to 30 feet; so if someone tries to break into your home, Glinka says, "spray the culprit in the eyes". It's a tip he's given to students for decades. It's also one he wants everyone to hear. If you're looking for protection, Glinka says look to the spray.
"That's going to give you a chance to call the police; maybe get out." Maybe even save a life.

Put your car keys beside your bed at night Tell your spouse, your children, your neighbors, your parents, your Dr's office, the check-out girl at the market, everyone you run across. Put your car keys beside your bed at night. If you hear a noise outside your home or someone trying to get in your house, just press the panic button for your car. The alarm will be set off, and the horn will continue to sound until either you turn it off or the car battery dies.

This tip came from a neighborhood watch coordinator. Next time you come home for the night and you start to put your keys away, think of this: It's a security alarm system that you probably already have and requires no installation. Test it. It will go off from most everywhere inside your house and will keep honking until your battery runs down or until you reset it with the button on the key fob chain. It works if you park in your driveway or garage. If your car alarm goes off when someone is trying to break into your house, odds are the burglar/rapist won't stick around. After a few seconds all the neighbors will be looking out their windows to see who is out there and sure enough the criminal won't want that. And remember to carry your keys while walking to your car in a parking lot. The alarm can work the same way there. This is something that should really be shared with everyone. Maybe it could save a life or a sexual abuse crime.

Would also be useful for any emergency, such as a heart attack, where you can't reach a phone. My Mom has suggested to my Dad that he carry his car keys with him in case he falls outside and she doesn't hear him.. He canactivate the car alarm and then she'll know there's a problem. Please pass this on even IF you've read it before. It's worth remembering....

Thanks to Cousin Terri for passing this along...

Saturday, April 10, 2010

FRUGAL MOMPRENEUR EBOOKS

~I have had a great response to my Frugal Momprenuer EBooks which you can find here; http://smallsprouts-christine.blogspot.com/2008/08/ebooks.html

"Start & run your own online business on a frugal budget" EBook is a great EBook for someone wanting to start an online business.

"How to drive traffic to you website, blog site, Etsy & EBay store" is a must have if you are starting or already have a online business.

~Here are some of the things people are saying about my EBooks~

Caroline said; Thank you SO much for the ebooks! I really got a lot out of reading the second one, about driving traffic to your site.

Theresa did an EBook review & said: The first Ebook, Frugal Mompreneur has lots of great advice including:
•The steps to starting an online business
•Setting up a new home office
•Creating a business name
•Business ideas
•Success Stories
•Tips on setting up a website or blog
•And many more things!

The second Ebook, Driving Traffic to your website has great tips including:
•Using Keywords for Search Engines
•Tips for gaining regular readers
•Facebook Tips
•A super secret tip that works great (you need to read the book to get the best tip!)

Both Ebooks are easy to read with lots of great information. I love how they are organized and set-up with a table of contents page so you know what to expect.

Heidi did an EBook review & said; new and old business owners can benefit from the lesson's in these e-books. The best thing of all regarding these lesson's is that it can save a great deal of money that you would spent on advertising. If you have the drive to bring your page to the top, then thise-book would help you grow your business online. In a few short minutes it takes you to read this valuable guide,you'll have saved yourself many hours that you can bespending building your online business.

The things I wish I knew when I started up:
The benefit of Keywords
The difference between a Facebook profile & a Facebook page
The benefit ofMcKLinky

The benefits I gained from this e-book:
Flickr -Theunderrated tool, I never knew that you could use it in the way the e-book described.
The list of sites with McKLinky.
Sharing your Expertise - The free and beneficial way to do this.
How to set up ablog giveaway - I have always wanted to do a giveaway as I'm sure many have.           
Thank you once again for allowing me to do this,
 Heidi

Thursday, April 8, 2010

CAUSES OF AUTISM~AUTISM AWARENESS MONTH

Wow! we have had an amazing response to our posts from many of you. I first want to thank all of you for your comments, e-mails & guest posts. The one thing I wanted to accomplish with these Autism Awareness posts is to provide some insight into the journey of many families affected by this syndrome.

If you have just joined us, please go back and read the first post http://tinyurl.com/yfjwfcp

After our Joel's diagnosis on the Autism Spectrum, we started researching & wondering where this came from? Is there a cure? What will his life be like as he grows older?

I first want to say that I am not a doctor, just a Mom with a Autistic child, who has done a lot of research leading to my own opinions for my son! Not really even concerned about a cure but willing to do whatever it takes to give Joel the best quality of life, living with his autism.


With all that said, here is what I have discovered! This first part will really surprise you. Joel has never been immunized. When we were pregnant with him, research on autism was really out in the fore front & we were hearing about a possible link between Autism & immunizations. So my husband & I just decided that we would wait to immunize him until he was older. You could call it a hunch, a God thing, it was an uneasy feeling we had about immunizing him. People like Jenny McCarthy are big advocates that immunizations cause Autism. Obviously that was not the case for us, BUT, I will say that I do believe immunizations can possibly cause a child with a genetic predisposition to autism to have a stronger reaction to it. let me explain!!

Can you be genetically predisposed to Autism? I believe you can. I will be adding a guest post from one of my sisters, Melissa. Her son, Miles, has been diagnosed on the autism spectrum. Do the research yourself, there are many reports now pointing in the direction of genetics.

So now you ask, what does that have to do with immunizations? Right after Joel was diagnosed, we started working with a holistic doctor, who explained to us that children with autism show a tendency to not excrete toxins as quickly as children without autism. So what do you know about immunizations? If you research, you will see the toxins that are contained in certain immunizations along with trace amounts of mercury (themerosal) & aborted fetal tissue!!

Working with our holistic doctor, we gave Joel a urine analysis for heavy metals which turned up high quantities of Mercury & a bit of lead. How could that happen? After looking in my mouth, the doctor explained to me that the several old mercury filling in my mouth leach mercury into my blood system. When you are pregnant, that mercury goes to your baby & if your child is genetically predisposed to autism, they do not excrete the mercury quickly, leaving them toxic.

Diet is also a big subject linked to autistic children. Mostly, what you hear about is the gluten free, casen free & sugar free, along with vitamin regimens. Left & right brain allignment is also a big topic. I will talk more about those in my next post.

Finally, I want to say, stay tuned for my next post, where I will talk about the treatment options & what has worked for us. Joel has experienced tremendous milestones with these treatments & I am looking forward to sharing our information with you!

If you have a story to share, please contact me frugalmomprenuer@sbcglobal.net

****I encourage you to take this information and do the research for yourself.

HIRE MY FRIEND~FRUGAL MOMPRENEUR TIP

Social media is a powerful tool, and the go-green movement has a strong presence in the social media world. Facebook, Twitter, Digg, etc., are all great ways to get your environmental message out to thousands or millions of people you don’t know. A new Facebook app is harnessing this power to help people get back to work or even land their dream job — Hire My Friend.


With unemployment at 9.7 percent in January 2010, there are nearly 15 million Americans out of work. Although the number is lower than it was in December 2009, the long-term unemployed rate jumped. In January 2010, there were 6.3 million people who had been out of work for 27 or more weeks. It is likely that these individuals have exhausted most traditional methods of finding employment. Now is the time to get innovative, and Hire My Friend helps people do that.

However, as you can see, the title of the app is Hire My Friend not Hire Me. There’s a bit of altruism in this app. It is designed for you to help a friend get hired. One of the most important aspects of getting a job is who you know. Reach out to your network of friends and business associates and you will find more meaningful leads than if you apply for a job in a newspaper ad or off the Internet.

As a freelancer writer, this is the way that I’ve grown my own business for several years now. I’m not the only person who operates this way, though. Freelancers in all fields have known that networking is the key to opening doors and securing new opportunities. Hire My Friend builds on this concept and opens this little “freelancer secret” to everyone.

When you place the Hire My Friend app on your Facebook page, you can highlight your friend’s job-related credentials and then this information is displayed via a live feed post. Now your entire network of Facebook friends can see what your friend has to offer.

In addition to the app itself, the Hire My Friend Facebook page has a variety of useful resources for job seekers. One tab features the latest jobs that are being posted on Twitter, another powerful social media tool. Another tab has a directory of job searching blogs, major job search sites, resume solutions, and humor for the jobless. The developer of the app encourages people to keep their chins up and be funemployed. Between the jobless humor directory and the app’s funny job-related videos, you’re sure to have a smile on your face.

Although this app isn’t specific to finding someone a job in renewable energy or weatherizing houses, its altruistic nature speaks to eco-advocates everywhere. If you know of someone who is out of work or still trying to land her dream job, I encourage you to try the Hire My Friend app.

Article reprinted from http://www.mnn.com/ ~Melissa Hincha-Ownby

Wednesday, April 7, 2010

PRESLEY'S STORY~AUTISM AWARENESS MONTH

This month is Autism Awareness month. I will be writing several posts about our experience, causes, treatment options, emotions. Along with some guest posts. If you have not read our first post, click http://tinyurl.com/yfjwfcp

~This is a guest post from Lacey Martin~
 When Christine asked me if I would write something for the blog I instantly replied “Wow! I’d love to!” It wasn’t until I sat down to write this did I start thinking to myself- “I have no clue where to begin or what I would really want people to know about Autism other than the effects it has on a family.” So that’s what I’m here to do- I’m not a doctor, therapist, teacher, or specialist of any sort- just your average 27-year-old trying to make life easier for my precious little girl, living with Autism.

I remember when I was pregnant, the fear that all expectant mothers-to-be have, of the unknown, including Autism. I remember riding in the car one afternoon saying to my husband, “why do these parents want to force their decision to not immunize THEIR child onto everyone else… why would they potentially not prevent a disease that could harm them?” This was the benefactor of living in a world where you just do whatever you’re supposed to do- go to all the exams, get all the shots, take this prescription for that. Why would you ever question the system?

My baby girl, Presley Rose, was born, healthy as an ox- 8 lbs. 6.3 oz. born three days before my due date in August, mind you. She remained in the 95-100 percentiles for her whole first year of life. She met all of her milestones – weaning, walking, talking, and fine/gross motor skills. To me and to the world, she was just like any other kid (well, to me she was a ‘baby-genius-supermodel,’ naturally).

When she was 16 months old, we finally got married and at that time she was saying two-word phrases already such as “who’s that? What’s that?” and in the right context. She would say “momma, dada, Jack (our dog), no, yes” and was very responsive- always very attentive and loving. She and I stayed home together for two years. I rarely left her with a babysitter and at 17 months she started daycare- and I went back to school. The transition was rough, but they kept assuring me it was normal and wouldn’t continue. Well, it never got easier and she suddenly quit talking all together. She cried continuously day and night. Was she depressed? That’s the only thing that ever even crossed my mind- I went back to school and now she was depressed. We went to our pediatrician for a regular check-up and discussed the speech regression & all the crying- she didn’t think anything about it. She suggested a speech therapist if we really felt it was an ‘issue’. It wasn’t until a few months later when I finally said “this is not my kid anymore, something is wrong.”

We took it upon ourselves to get a ‘referral’ from the Pediatrician’s office, and got on the waiting list at Texas Children’s Learning & Support Center. Three and a half months later, we were called in for an evaluation which was for lack-of-better words, a joke. One child psychiatrist tried interacting with her while another recorded her observations from a glassed in room- you know, like the kind on TV. When we concluded the initial evaluation the doctor’s interpretation was that she personally didn’t feel Presley had Autism but suggested speech therapy from a local center. We left, without answers, just as we came in.

I started thinking about other options. Where do we begin?

In the meantime, I was back working full time and Presley was attending another local daycare as we had moved. We explained to the school what we were experiencing at home and that we were currently working on figuring out some type of therapy for her- perhaps that would come to her class. After moving her around the school three times, and discovering (witnessing via a video monitor from my office PC) they weren’t even setting a place for her at mealtime…oh yes, I’m dead serious… the front-desk receptionist (not even the Director) approached me in the lobby after I called enraged and suggested we send her to a school for children with clinically diagnosed mental retardation. WT-bleep? If I wasn’t so much smaller than her and in a daycare I would have probably slapped her dead in the face. She was lucky.

I started thinking- how can she (re)learn speech if she can’t hear? Maybe it’s a hearing problem. So before we went to a Speech Therapist, we took her to an ENT for testing. She tested fine according to them- and of course, they lent their opinion on therapy, and suggested we wait a year or so to even consider it. Imagine that.

She was already 2½ now and a friend of a friend mentioned Early Childhood Intervention (ECI) services. We looked into it online and went through three evaluations which concluded that Presley was basically living the life of a 13-18 month old baby. Shocked. She started therapy sessions (at her new and very loving church school, where she should have been all along anyway) once a week for only 45 minutes per session. It was speech and occupational therapy only.

At 3 years old, ECI drops the services and they must then be re-evaluated by their school district to confirm that they still need services. We went through months of evaluations, interviews, meetings, conferences by phone and they concluded that Presley was by their terms, Autistic, and needed to be placed in an intensive therapy program, five days a week for five hours each day. [Relief] at this point, we didn’t need a title, a word, or diagnosis to know that whatever stole our daughter away from us needed to be kicked in the BLEEP. We needed to pinpoint whatever was triggering her ‘depression’ (outbursts, tears, pain and silence) and move forward.

Today, almost 4 years old, Presley has made so much progress. We finally found someone to listen to us, and to CARE (seems so basic) but to actually CARE for our little girl’s well-being. Wow. BTW: I’m 6 months pregnant right now and my hormones just enraged. Okay, I’m good. Presley may not talk still- we absolutely have our moments but we can take her to school each day knowing that she’s actually learning. She randomly says things, it’s never consistent or on queue but surprises us all the time. We have her attending her church daycare after school everyday so she can still have interaction with the ‘neurotypical’ kids.

To anyone on the outside, you’d never know a difference. Presley is affectionate and quiet with moments of madness, of course, but most importantly, she’s not acting out like before. She doesn’t cry endlessly- there are ways she’s able to express her needs- taking our hand, leading us to something she wants, etc. She can say the alphabet and numbers from a book (by song). The point in all of this is that if YOU feel (even the slightest) that there may be MORE going on with your child, don’t take one person’s word for it. Do a little research and learn the signs of Autism. There is help out there and I guarantee you people in your shoes. We’re still struggling every day but we’ve found within us strength like no other- strength of will and of patience. You are your child’s only advocate.

For the month of April, I want to urge you to read more about Autism. Google it, go to www.autismspeaks.org, www.generationrescue.org, the CDC for crying out loud (even though they walk on egg shells on their site, of course), watch Grandin Road, read The Horse Boy, Mother Warriors,… Autism is more prevalent than you may realize and if we can just get the awareness out there we’ll be that much closer to finding a cure or simply be able to pinpoint the cause that is affecting our children like this.

~I want to thank my friend, Lacey Martin for sharing her journey with her daughter, Presley (peanut)~